Heartbreak

Wednesday, December 13, 2023: Today I pulled the Three of Swords. The Three of Swords is about loss. Loss is a part of life. We deal with loss all the time. Even in happy long term relationships we have to deal with loss.

Heidi Priebe said, “To love someone long-term is to attend a thousand funerals of the people they used to be. The people they’re too exhausted to be any longer. The people they don’t recognise inside themselves anymore. The people they grew out of, the people they never ended up growing into. We so badly want the people we love to get their spark back when it burns out; to become speedily found when they are lost.

But it is not our job to hold anyone accountable to the people they used to be. It is our job to travel with them between each version and to honour what emerges along the way. Sometimes it will be an even more luminescent flame. Sometimes it will be a flicker that disappears and temporarily floods the room with a perfect and necessary darkness.”

The Mother is there to help when we are succeeding and when we are struggling. 

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As always when I speak of life, love and Tarot I speak only for myself. 

The Three of Swords is from is from the Shadowscapes Tarot, by Barbara Moore and Stephanie Pui-Mun 

The Mother is from The Spark Tarot. The Spark Tarot is by Karen Hess.

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As always when I speak of life, love and Tarot I speak only for myself. 

The Three of Swords is from The Modern Love Tarot, by Ethony

The Mother is from The Spark Tarot. The Spark Tarot is by Karen Hess.